Honesty, care, respect and the whole set of moral values, if you adhere to them and vouch for them…..what should I call you strong or hallucinated!!!! I will prefer strongly hallucinated. 🙂
I have seen caring people suffer the most. How strange is that!!!! Someone who embraced such a beautiful moral value of “Caring others” is the saddest and unsatisfied person. Firstly, he is sad because some other person is in bad condition or something…out of this sadness his morality of caring others ignites, and he rushes to help. Next, he is sad because he is not getting the due honor for his help. Moving further, he is sad because now he is in bad condition and others are not repaying the price. Now, it is interesting to note that prices are subjective, costs may be somewhat fixed. I can price 20 for something and you can price 30. Here is the seed of dissatisfaction for a caring person. He priced it 30 and you re-payed just 20. Poor fellow!!!!
Here is the flip…. the person who was in really serious situation, being cared by you. He also posses a great moral value of “to be grateful”. He so adheres to this value that he approves of any nonsense you do. And life long repays for your care, since he priced it even higher. You may insult him anytime, he will be saying in a very polite way “Please don’t misjudge me” and still stick by your side. He is also not happy. You are not happy and he is not happy and two unhappy people creating constant unhappy situations around them. Making a world of mental illness and physical illness. Strange!!!
Slowly, I am getting averse to moral values we were taught in our childhood. It is because of these moral values there is so much chaos in the world. Everyone has different set of moral values with their different definitions, causing continuous conflict in lives.
It would have been so great if I was promoted to be just a sensible human being (and nothing else) since my childhood. Without discrimination of friend and foe, if I were taught to respond to situations than to humans. Instead of making a caring person we should get involve in making of sensible human being. And I wish this for all of us. I am trying hard to unlearn this stupidity.
Be happy. Be healthy and be Sensible.
See you again.